Entering college has been the experience of a lifetime. I learned so much about people,but mainly about myself; socially, spiritually, academically, emotionally and well physically too. I made many mistakes, the best part about that, is I learned from them and tried my hardest to correct them...most of them. I made new friends, dealt with various personalities, interacted with individuals from diverse backgrounds. Yes, it's true Michigan State University is very diverse and it may be a culture shock to some. I engaged in discussions on issues and heard my peers perspectives as well. It's important to have an open mind and always be willing to broaden your horizons. Also I learned it's best to have a subjective view on issues because everyone has different opinions, but always be able to support yours.
I had my share of fun freshman year. I partied, sipped something here and there, flirted, had crushes, etc... I had a ball. I went into college semi-single by way of a 4 year relationship. My ex and I were having problems, and at that time I was ready and willing to meet new guys and explore. I met many types of guys, but as the saying goes, "everything that glitters isn't gold," I found that to be true. I got acquainted with the player, the church going kid, the intellect, and what have you. All while being only semi-single. In the end, all of those interactions didn't last; in fact, I have unacquainted myself with most of them, because they're no longer the type of people I desire to be around. By no means are they bad people, we're just on different pages. Honestly I've began a new chapter.
It was all fun and games to me, but at the same time I was not fully abiding my morals. Thankfully I have matured a whole lot since my freshman year. I know you're wondering, how could someone change so fast? But it is possible. There were times when I stopped all that I was doing and analyzed my situation and I wasn't happy with my behavior, but I still didn't change. After while I became spiritually inbound thanks to my ex-roomie. I got involved in the gospel choir, bible studies, church, etc. After I began my quest with God, I began the quest within myself. I guess you can call it soul searching.
I would like to clear up any misconceptions; I was not a hoe, and I am not a hoe. I have much more respect for myself than that.
I know the famous quote "people are fake" is getting old, but it's the truth. College is a dog eats dog world. People are out there for themselves, they will use you until they reach their goal. I met some honest as well as supportive people, but the number of fakes outweighs the real. I can truly say the 3 girls I went to high school with are still my closest friends. Don't get me wrong, I love my MSU girls. It's easy to associate with the wrong crowd and people that you typically wouldn't hang with. Just because you go to parties with someone does not make them your friend, neither does your roommate have to be your best friend.
The dorm experience was intense...community bathrooms are not so bad, unless you have a favorite shower. lol. All I can say is get there fast and first. I've always had my own everything. Me, growing up living with my brother and parents, I didn't have to share much. When I moved to MSU things changed and it was a hard pill to swallow. I realized how selfish I was. I learned to adjust to certain situations and be selfless in sharing.
The first semester was tough for me. I went in thinking that it would be a breeze since I had BS'ed my way through high school. There were so many distractions and I allowed myself to be distracted. I'd go out on class nights. (Don't let the themed days of the week get you. Wine Wednesday, Thirsty Thursdays,F'ed up Fridays,etc. lol) I'm sure I have those days wrong, but that's not important. I would stay out late and return to my room to start homework. By that time I'd be tired and I wouldn't work to my full potential.
I slacked. I would hangout at different dorms, chill in the cafeteria as time passed. Half of the people I chilled with are now on academic probation or no longer at MSU. That goes to show, studying should be #1 priority. I always say the same people you see coming up are they same ones you see going down.
Second semester was a lot better with the help of God and others. I was more focused and self-driven.
Really,I gained so much freshman year. (literally) lol. With all jokes aside, I became a better person in every aspect. I'm proud of myself and I can't wait to start FALL 08 at MSU off right. Good luck to all of the incoming freshman!
P.S. Ask me about health tips, coursework, and whatever else.
Until next time.
BRITT-
